7 Habits

1.Be Proactive
 "Habit is the key to unlocking all the others habits and that's why it comes first. It says, "I am the captain of my life. I can choose my attitude. I'm responsible for my own happiness or unhappiness. I am in the driver's seat of my destiny, not just a passenger."

"Regret is not a proactive feeling. It is situated in disappointment, sorrow, even remorse. It merely wishes things were different without an act to cause a difference. However, repentance is different. Repentance is an admission of, hatred of, and turning away from sin before God."

-Monica Johnson

A person that is proactive is a person not matter what happens will always comeback. They have the key to there own destiny. In someones do you really think someone will be brought to there knees because of the fact of something has happen to them. The answer is very simple. It's no because they have the mentality to keep themselves going beyond. These are the type people that if you run into you better hope you become friends with. These individuals will help you throughout your whole entire life. If you want to make the world a better place take a look at your self and then make a change. The change will be turning into a proactive individual person.

2. Begin with the end in mind 
"Control your own destiny or someone else will." (Jack Welch)

The fact that most people let themselves get there minds brain wash by others is sad. They would go do the stupid even though its not right.That is ignorance that gets people killed, arrested, hurt, or even others around them. Then after all that "stuff" they were doing they have the audacity to say we didn't know or I didn't know. This is why you yourself should make the choices to crave the path to what you want to be or achieved. The people that do not begin with the end product are the ones that are usually begin told whatever to do. They will follow through with instructions like trying to get a individual mad, starting something up with someone else for no reason, These are most dangerous people to meet because they will almost anything to keep a path open by someone that has lead them on that path. Always create a destiny that you will be remember for. Don't go out there and have someone else control you!  




"You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life."

-Steve Jobs

3.Put First Things First

"Organize and execute around "priorities"
What is the first that comes to mind when something needs to be done? Usually most people tend to time there activities or schedule it. Most people that I know tend to put there things that they have to do first as one of the last things to do. That is something that is rub off and many more do it like because of the other activities. They put the things that can be taken care of after the importance of  an assignment or work. This something people should not do but keep continue doing which will eventually lead to there suffering and sorrow. In the first place put those things first always and do them first always. These what they call Priorities! Most people have and others well.... strive to get them. In the end all that really matters the work put into and how long it took to finish.


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"In order to succeed, we must first believe that we can."
-Nikos Kazantzakis




Habit 4: Think-Think or No Deal

In many situations there is usually a win win or a win lose or a lose lose situations. Its our job to go for the most beneficial one. There is no point on getting a deal that wont help you in anyway shape or form. This is a matter of facts and truth be told some people take lose-lose situations because of the benefits that actually come with it. The fact the people will go as far to lose in return gain something even better is something. This is how the real world works. They always going on about what choices they should make and what values come with it. People need to understand the world wont be waiting for them. They need to get up on there feet and start searching for the best and possible opportunities. No man or woman shall go to life and lead themselves to failure they must reach a win-win situation.

 

"Economics is about creating win-win situations. But in sports, someone loses."

-Stan Kroenke

Habit 5: Seek First to understand , then to be Understood

"Diagnose before you prescribe."

Always try to understand what others are going through than yourself the reason is that people always are in need of help. These type of people are the people that are the most sincere. People need to need to understand this that is key. Those that do not understand this concept will never ever be understood. Those that do get it will seek-out more friends and be able to understand one another equally on a level of sensitivity. it just like a doctor when he checks you for symptoms. After that he prescribes the medicine needed to treat your body.  This is what it means to Diagnose before prescribing. Understanding one and another hand to hand experience is key here. Always seek first to understand than to be understood. 

"Change will not come if we wait for some other person or some other time. We are the ones we've been waiting for. We are the change that we seek."

-Barack Obama


Habit 6: Synergize
"The whole is greater than the sum of its part(1+1=3)"

 People need to know what a good synergy can do to you and a team member. This can bring out loads of team work and other secrets. This a major to finding the best chemistry. A synergy can help bring out the true power of a double to four v four battle. Just like in the game Mortal kombat Smoke and Noob and perfect candidates for an example of synergy. This Duo works miraculous and is a duo to be on the lookout for. This is also goes to show that nothing can be done alone no matter how much is accomplish you will need some help at some point. Look for the one bond to help build up the chemistry. Once that is done you will be set and just then move from experience there on.  
  


"I truly believe in positive synergy, that your positive mindset gives you a more hopeful outlook, and belief that you can do something great means you will do something great."

-Russell Wilson



Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw
Four Dimensions of Self- renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional
  
What does it mean to sharpen the saw. It means to be prepare and know whats coming to have a easy time. This will give further enhances of how to proceed with the way things are with. It will pass on light and will show what will happen if the saw is sharpen the way its suppose to be. Is suppose only those capable to sharpen anything at will be the one that get through life like it was butter.These principals will always apply with one another Self- renewal: Physical, Mental, Spiritual, Social/Emotional. Those cannot be escaped from. Sharp the saw and the way to you will be a sharp one!



Reflection: Overall this was a helpful guiding light into what humans can do. Humans have the ability to do almost anything. It's just decided in the mind what they capabilities are.

Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't Criticize, condemn or complain

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."

The way to start handling people is there and there. to but willing to take it. To have the patience and to be willing to go through it. Don't ever tell them off it will make it worse. Only under special conditions may it happen. Be willing to go far for them and don't be stubborn to them. Acknowledge them a lot. Show that it by actions and as well . This is one way to handle people. Gather all the honey!

 
"Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do."
Benjamin Franklin

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"

People that give you the appreciation are the people that should be kept closer. Those are the ones that will help you through out your life. Like DJ Khaled says they don't want you win. Those people just cut them off. they are the bad fruit the tree cut them off make the sacrifice. This will help gradually build trust with them and be able to tell them certain things that you wouldn't with others. People will always try to bring you down and those people need to be there for you. The key success is to key is to keep those true friends with you all the time. Always keep a good smile with others. And always be a true person not a snake like today's standards are portrayed.

  

"Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak, and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid, one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory."
Douglas MacArthur

Technique 3:Arouse in the other person an eager want.

"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely walk.

Its true the person that can do is has hands over you. You pretty much go under there spell. There are many people that can achieve this but they have to know the other two techniques first. Try your best to get others arouse in a way that you can help them become a better person and always become a self assessed person. People will never reach this goal truly because everyone has the tip of it handed down but never achieved fully. Make them fell like they need you Make them feel they have to keep you and have that eager sensation. This is the way to becoming a puppet master. its true where you like it or not. You pull the strings of a person that wants to be eager all to be with you or the fact that you need them. 

"What I needed most was to love and to be loved, eager to be caught. Happily I wrapped those painful bonds around me; and sure enough, I would be lashed with the red-hot pokers or jealousy, by suspicions and fear, by burst of anger and quarrels."

-Saint Augustine

Final Reflection
What I think about these three techniques are the fact that I will be able to actually assess myself with these techniques. Its the way how the game is played makes it look how you are as a person. You can be the nicest person on the block but if you cant keep a shady profile everyone will be weary of you. Know how to play and success will come surely to you. Being able to have the Patience to keep up with a person that is always obnoxious is something not many people can do even if they say they can. This will surely get you up in the stages of life quicker than usually. People that are aroused known to come back quicker to you and want more of it.People will always be better at something than you. Its our job to assess our selves and make our self a better individual.

School break days

School Break Days

Something that I did over the break was go to the chill event and visited the Queen Marry that same day. As well during that time I happened to get my work for the break from Mr.Solis. I then went to a field trip to Pasadena with Mr. Solis and got to explore many things. I got to go to the Norton Simon museum where i got to see many forms of arts and got to learn the history form it. My next stop was to go eat at a Chinese Buffet where the food was amazing. I manage to eat than the whole group itself. Then I got to go see the old town of Pasadena where i visited a comic book store and bought some souvenirs for myself. My trip next takes me to the theater where i got to finally see the new star wars movie it was amazing just perfect pacing from where the movie left off and as well to end it off i got to go the place called meregune where there Cuban was simply delicious. The days came by and I was training. I was training myself for the 18 miler I had coming up. When the day came I did excellent expect the ending where I got a cramp on my left butt cheeked. Overall this break was something for me as I usually don't do much during the breaks expect play video games. 

 

Self Evaluation

This course was well... a decent course to say the least. It did have it moments in this class and as well learn skills that actually helpful. I loved how we were getting into binary coding but disappointed at the same time because the course was too short and we didn't really get to putting the coding into actually action. The thing that impressed me the most was being able to create our own web site that is fully functional if done right and properly. If I had top grade this course as a whole i would give the first part a B because this class had more potential and much more to offer than it actually did. I would say to improve the class instead of doing the daily post I would jump right into the basics of coding right away and putting it to work in the field of some training that needs this type of coding. In all honestly I did not do my best. I was working at second rate pace and could of shown more promise but at last that was all up to me and my choice alone. I am committed to be a CTR person but in my own views never side with one but always make sure its the moral thing to do that benefits everyone not just faction or country. 

How to win friends and Influence People

Three Fundamental Techniques 

in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't criticize, condemn or complain.

“If you want to gather honey, don’t kick over the beehive.”

People are commended to do things that they complain about. People will always complain.No matter what people will never be satisfied. People will have criticism for anything. This is the world we live in as a whole. People will never have anything better to say.  

Six Ways to Make People Like you. If you want people to like you.........

1.Become Genuinely Interested in Other People

In this world people will like you or keep interest in you if you do the same to them. People in this world are always keeping up withe there agenda. If you are not in that agenda then you are not a interest to them. To Keep friends now a days you have to show them that you care and you will drop whatever you doing just for them. This shows how much you care for them and then in the long run hope they do the same to you. If they do not do the same for you we a special word these type of people " Snakes". These snakes we avoid as much as we can. We do not need people that act like a snake and instead settle for a group of small people that will stay with us.  This is why we show interest to others. We do what we can to keep them by our sides till the end or when they pass away in a morbid but enough of they are our friends. 

  "If you want to know the taste of a pear, you must change the pear by eating it yourself. If you want to know the theory and methods of revolution, you must take part in revolution. All genuine knowledge originates in direct experience".

-Mao Zedong

2.Smile 

1) "Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says, "I like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you."

2) "You don't feel like smiling? Then force yourself to smile."

3) "It creates happiness in the home, fosters good will in a business, and is the countersign (witness or indication) of friends."

The fact a smile can make someones day even if you are not having a good one. The people in this world need to learn how to genuinely smile with others. Now a days people smile and there smile is a fake smile. You can see it in there eyes as they try to give you the smile and you cant help but fell bad for them. Even a fake smile can fool those around us and make them happy to see them smile. It just the way the world works people smile to not keep others from smiling.  Always try to smile to make other feel comfortable with you . Never try to make a person feel bad about themselves. actions will always speak louder than words and that is a fact! 

3. Remember Names

1) "A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."

2) "If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble."

Remember names is something that people should do. Who knows maybe someday in the future someone will remember you when you have succeeded in life. A name is powerful and can bring fear or joy. People that don't remember names are people that don't succeeded. Remembering names is a key to building up a strong relationships with other people that will help grow you in the future.  Always remember names it can help you one day or save your life. Imagine something great you did but no one remember you. That would honestly suck and the feeling will so out whack. Always try the best to remember everyone names. Who knows even your name can be talked about if you leave a lasting impression. 

"No more tears...but always in pain...forget everything but remember my name..."

- Shiv Adhikari 

How to remember names:

1. Keep in touch
2. write them down
3. associate 
4.  Choose to care
5. Make connections

4.Be a Good Listener: Encourage others to talk about themselves 

" If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener." 

"Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems. 

Always be a good listener to others when the chance is given. Never be that type of person that will ignore others. Being a good listener has its perks. Like listening to what they have to say and remembering what they told you. This also shows that they like to share what they have to offer to us as a whole. But also to remember people always like to be self center most times even if they don't know it they just do it. If that is the case just remember that to be a good listener to them. Never ignore them and try to be helpful to them in any way. Let others express themselves and share what knowledge they have acquired. Always be the best at the skill that will help you in your life more than anything else. 

Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest.

"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most."

The roads are many and different every time. People need first to study the man ways. People do not always know the road they are going through and it can end they way to a man's heart.  Every road will always end with a different result. The trick here that you must keep asking and asking what is important to them . No matter what you do keep asking and do not stop asking.  That is the way to a mans heart . Never doubt yourself and be high spirited to keep the vibe going. Then everything will be crystal clear. Always strive for greatness.  

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important--and do it sincerely.

"The desire to be important is the deepest urge in human nature." (John Dewey)"Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic."

People like to be loved and that is a fact. They like to be loved in a way where it has meaning to it and where it doesn't have meaning at all.People will always try to love one another but without consequence. There will always be suffering involved, sadness, grief. There will always be happy times, moments to remember, and the moments you will love best. These are the moments that people stay around for. No matter what the case is the person will like each other still as a one.  This is what John Dewey knows best to do. Everyone will always strive to go for this no matter the case it may be. This a way to keep your peers love not any love love that comes with a meaning. 

Overall Reflection 

 The posts showing the six ways to make people will like you. These ways are something everyone should take the time to do once in a while. Everyone can applies to this in a way. Everyone can make someone fell comfort and important to them. People do it all the time in relationships. The fact this isn't new means there is no excuse to make yourself a better person. You have to make yourself a better person if you want to get somewhere in life and as well be able to talk to people with no problem. Like being a good listener is something everyone should always be doing. No matter what the case may be. Just start listening to one another. Try to always apply what the rules have to offer. Do the rules and the rules will do you good!

Glenn Cunningham

Glenn Cunningham 

What a man this boy turned out to be and what heart he had. He had the will and courage to go on with his life. He lost his brother in an explosion and got third degree burns. He did not want to be a vegetable and irrelevant in the family so he did what he always wanted to do again. He started walking again and little by little he started to do other things. After the incident with the fire he sought out to become a doctor and becoming a Olympic runner. He did so int the end as Glenn ran in the 1932 Los Angeles and in the 1936 Berlin Olympics, as he had dreamed as a boy.  He won Silver in the 1500 meter race in Berlin. This is what is takes to have heart ladies and gentlemen.