Monday, January 11, 2016

Three Fundamental Techniques in Handling People

Technique 1: Don't Criticize, condemn or complain

"If you want to gather honey, don't kick over the beehive."

The way to start handling people is there and there. to but willing to take it. To have the patience and to be willing to go through it. Don't ever tell them off it will make it worse. Only under special conditions may it happen. Be willing to go far for them and don't be stubborn to them. Acknowledge them a lot. Show that it by actions and as well . This is one way to handle people. Gather all the honey!

 
"Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do."
Benjamin Franklin

Technique 2: Give honest and sincere appreciation
"The big secret in dealing with people"

People that give you the appreciation are the people that should be kept closer. Those are the ones that will help you through out your life. Like DJ Khaled says they don't want you win. Those people just cut them off. they are the bad fruit the tree cut them off make the sacrifice. This will help gradually build trust with them and be able to tell them certain things that you wouldn't with others. People will always try to bring you down and those people need to be there for you. The key success is to key is to keep those true friends with you all the time. Always keep a good smile with others. And always be a true person not a snake like today's standards are portrayed.

  

"Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak, and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid, one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory."
Douglas MacArthur


Technique 3:Arouse in the other person an eager want.
"He who can do this has the whole world with him. He who cannot, walks a lonely walk.

Its true the person that can do is has hands over you. You pretty much go under there spell. There are many people that can achieve this but they have to know the other two techniques first. Try your best to get others arouse in a way that you can help them become a better person and always become a self assessed person. People will never reach this goal truly because everyone has the tip of it handed down but never achieved fully. Make them fell like they need you Make them feel they have to keep you and have that eager sensation. This is the way to becoming a puppet master. its true where you like it or not. You pull the strings of a person that wants to be eager all to be with you or the fact that you need them. 





"What I needed most was to love and to be loved, eager to be caught. Happily I wrapped those painful bonds around me; and sure enough, I would be lashed with the red-hot pokers or jealousy, by suspicions and fear, by burst of anger and quarrels."

-Saint Augustine

Final Reflection
What I think about these three techniques are the fact that I will be able to actually assess myself with these techniques. Its the way how the game is played makes it look how you are as a person. You can be the nicest person on the block but if you cant keep a shady profile everyone will be weary of you. Know how to play and success will come surely to you. Being able to have the Patience to keep up with a person that is always obnoxious is something not many people can do even if they say they can. This will surely get you up in the stages of life quicker than usually. People that are aroused known to come back quicker to you and want more of it.People will always be better at something than you. Its our job to assess our selves and make our self a better individual.


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